Special Day

Two posts in one day?  Amazing heh?  Well this topic definitely warrants its own space.  A couple of weeks ago I mentioned that the Arlington Heights Junior Women's Club (AHJWC) had chosen The CHARGE Syndrome Foundation as the benefactor of their annual Children's Concert.  Seriously - how cool is that?  Let me first say that the AHJWC are SO incredibly nice.  Not that I expected them not to be - but nice along the lines of people I would choose as friends of my own.  Sweet, genuine, caring.  Awesome.


The concert was held this morning at Westgate Elementary School in Arlington Heights - a stone's throw from our house.  I invited all of our family and friends to attend and I also posted a message on the CHARGE Syndrome list serv (Yahoo Message Board), a message was sent out to the CHARGE group on Facebook, and I sent an email to all of the CHARGE families in Illinois.  I didn't know what to expect as far as turn out... let's face it - the weekends are incredibly busy for everyone.  Up until now, while I had exchanged emails with a few other CHARGE families, we'd never had the opportunity to meet in person.  Today, all of that changed. My mom and step dad, sister, brother in law and two gorgeous nieces met at our house and we were met there by my mother in law.  Shortly after we walked in, I was looking out the door and saw one of my friends from work walking up with her son!  I was so surprised-  she never mentioned she was coming and she came all the way from Round Lake.  I was so touched!  Then so many other friends started arriving with their families - Liza and Bode, Deb and Alyssa and Olivia, Amanda and Peyton, Bridget (whom I haven't seen in years!) and Casey, Lynne/Mark/Owen and Avery - THANK YOU SO MUCH!  I was so proud to have you there and I so enjoyed seeing your beautiful kiddos and the fact that you took the time to come today was so very special for us!  The kids seemed to really enjoy themselves, some more than others...Bode sweetie - you made my day!!

Liza/Bode, Deb/Olivia, Amanda/Peyton

Ya-ya, Kassi and Grammy

Bode.  The Rock Star.

Still rocking!

Olivia.

Amanda and Peyton

Cari and Logan in the foreground; Bridget and Casey in the back.

Liza supervising the water fountain shenanigans.  Who knew the water fountain was so fun?

Note the wet spot on the floor.

Me and the princess (who didn't want to participate in the picture and just wanted to look out the window!)
The other very cool part of the day - there were four other CHARGE families in attendance!  I finally got a chance to meet some other parents and their adorable kiddos.  It was amazing.  I loved seeing their kids who were all different ages - and it was as though I could see a little of Finley in all of them.  Most of all it was so wonderful to connect with the other adults who had traveled our journey before us.  It was like being able to fast forward our lives and see a little of the future.  I found each and every one of them to be extraordinary - to hear the things they talked about, they meticulous way they orchestrate their children's care and the way they advocate for them.  And one very special momma who was there lost her son, Joshua, to CHARGE when he wasn't quite a year old.  Yet she stays involved in the Foundation and her family hosts the Joshua Kurby Charge for CHARGE every year - a 5K race benefiting the Foundation.  She is a true inspiration and I am so honored to have her attend today.

We are anxiously awaiting the results of the day but frankly, seeing so many people come together for this event that benefited the CHARGE Foundation, is all I really needed.

A huge thanks to AHJWC!!!

3 comments:

Sylvia said...

What an incredible turnout! I am so sorry I had to miss the concert - but we went to visit Michael's son in Mokena. Love the new photos.

Unknown said...

u no sandy and her fam have a blog they ae truely great people

Kurby Family said...

I am so lucky to have met you. You did a wonderful job orchestrating the whole event and being able to meet everyone...you really have your stuff together! I am impressed! Truly a great day had by all, thank you!

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Finley's Medical History

Born on 8/8/2009 - Finley is taken to Children's Memorial Hospital via the transport team 12 hours after she is born.  She is having trouble breathing and is turning blue.  She is immediately admitted to the NICU.

8/9/2009 - Finley is diagnosed with Tetralogy of Fallot, a congenital heart defect and laryngomalacia, a condition that causes her to aspirate whatever she swallows in to her lungs.

8/21/2009 - Finley has open heart surgery to place a Blalock Taussig shunt to help facilitate proper blood flow.  When she is older, she will require a full repair of her heart.

9/10/2009 - Finley is released from the NICU.  Because of her laryngomalacia and reflux, she is fed 100% through a nasal gastric tube.

9/14/2009 - Finley is re-admitted to the hospital for an infection in her surgical wound.  Finley's genetic test comes back - she is diagnosed with CHARGE Syndrome.

9/15/2009 - During a CT scan to assess the infection, the doctors notice something strange on her CT.  It appears Finley has a malrotated bowel and will require surgery.

9/23/2009 - Finley is examined by the opthalmologist and she is found to have colobomas, a condition common with CHARGE Syndrome, in both eyes.  The degree of her visual impairment is unknown.

9/30/2009 - Finley has the Ladd's Procedure to correct the malrotation and also has a g-tube placed.  

10/7/2009 - Finley has a sedated ABR to check her hearing.  She has a mild hearing loss in her right ear and a moderate to severe loss in her left.  Her loss can be at least partially corrected with hearing aids.

10/8/2009 - Finley is supposed to be released from the hospital today but she has been having low blood sugars.  The endocrinology is called in to evaluate her.

10/29/2009 - Finley is finally released from the hospital with a unconfirmed diagnosis of hyperinsulinism.  Actual diagnosis requires fasting blood tests - because of her heart condition, it is not safe for her to fast.  She needs to have her blood sugar tested every three hours and we are taught how to administer an emergency glucagon injection in case her blood sugar gets to low.

11/1/2009 - Finley requires emergency injection because she cannot sustain her blood sugar.  She is taken to the local ER and transported via the transport team to Childrens Memorial.

11/10/2009 - Finley is discharged from the hospital on a 24 hour continuous feed.  We add polycose to her milk to help her keep her blood sugar at an acceptable level.

11/22/2009 - Finley is taken to the local emergency room with a bad cold - she is having trouble breathing and her oxygen saturations are low.   She is transported via the transport team up to Children's Memorial.

11/25/2009 - Finley is released from the hospital - just in time for Thanksgiving.

12/8/2009 - Finley is taken to the local emergency room for observation - she has a bad cold.

12/21/2009 - Nate is chasing the dog and the dog runs in to Finley's IV pole, knocks it down and pulls out her g-tube.  She is taken to the ER at Childrens to have it put back in.

2/10/2010 - Finley is admitted through the ER at Childrens - she has a bad cold again.  Oxygen saturations are low and breathing is labored.

2/13/2010 - Finley is released from the hospital.

4/17/2010 - Finley is taken to the ER at Childrens - she has pus draining from her belly button.  They suspect a urachal cyst - they send us home with orders to return on  Tuesday (during our scheduled visit) for an abdominal ultrasound.

4/20/2010 - Finley is admitted to Childrens for an overnight stay.  She will have a swallow study and abdominal ultrasound on Tuesday and a CT and sedated echocardiogram on Wednesday which will require anesthesia.

4/21/2010 - The anesthesiologists have trouble intubating Finley, so they call in her ENT to have a look at her.  He observes that her airway is 75% closed off - partially due to scar tissue from previous intubation and partially due to an infection.  The diagnosis is subglottic stenosis and may require her to have surgery on her airway.  She is immediately admitted to the PICU and put on a 24/7 breathing treatment and antibiotics and steroids to help reduce the inflammation.

4/26/2010 - Finley is well enough to be taken off of all oxygen.  Immunology and Infectious Disease are called in to examine Finley because the culture of her throat are growing staph and strep.  Infectious Disease is trying to figure out what could have caused her infection.  Immunology labs will be drawn to determine if Finley has an immune problem which sometime occurs with children with CHARGE.  This is the second significant infection she has had since she was born.

4/27/2010 - The lab calls to say that they mis-read Finley's airway culture.  It's not growing staph - its only growing strep.

4/28/2010 - Immunology labs are back and don't show anything significant.  Finley's lymphocyte counts are low but that isn't unusual for a child who is fighting an infection.  The doctor wants to re-examine her before her first birthday.  In the meantime she cannot have any live vaccines.

4/29/2010 - Finley is discharged from the hospital.  The ENT will do a bronchoscopy before her heart repair surgery to determine next steps on her airway issue.

5/11/2010 - Finley has open heart surgery to repair her heart.

5/17/2010 - Finley begins to show signs of infection which is later identified as a urinary tract infection.

5/25/2010 - Finley is discharged from the hospital.

5/30/2010 - Finley goes to the ER at Childrens because of fussiness, sweating, heavy breathing.  And echo later identifies that the pressure gradient around Finley's pulmonary valve is an astounding 90%.

6/1/2010 - Finley is admitted to Childrens to try a medication called Propranolol to help ease the pressure in her heart.

6/2/2010 - The Propranolol brings the pressure in Finley's heart down from 90% to 50%.  Finley has a positive test for C. difficile which will require antibiotic treatment.

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