One Year Ago Today
This date is etched in my head like all of the other important dates I have jumbling around up there. One year ago today - exactly 4 days after Finley's discharge from the NICU - relatively speaking - her chest exploded. The huge glob of pus that erupted from the surgical incision on her chest - 23 days post op - surely it wasn't good. And it wasn't. I rushed her down to Children's where the nurse practitioner removed the remaining steri strips that were covering her incision to reveal a red, angry infection. The urgency at which she rushed around that exam room and phoned Dr. Backer, Finley's surgeon, was all I needed to know that this was very very bad. Finley was immediately admitted to the PICU where the CV surgery team began to assess her and order tests and CT scans and the like and as all of this bustling went on around me, I left the room to pump. Little did I know, things were about to get more complicated.
When I returned, there was a message for me. From Dr. Burton. The geneticist. The results of Finley's genetics test were in. She'd like to talk to me. But it was 5:30 pm and I knew she'd left for the day and as I sat on the phone with Mike and we put our heads together to try to figure out how we could get our hands on those results without waiting until the morning - I received a call from Finley's pediatrician. I had called to tell her Finley had been readmitted with this infection. She asked if I had spoken to Dr. Burton. WHAT? Had Dr. Burton called her???? So after a lot of cajoling, and yes, I would talk to Dr.Burton first thing in the morning so she could explain first hand, and blah blah blah - she told me. Finley has CHARGE Syndrome. CHARGE Syndrome?? It happens in 1:10,000 live births she told me. And since she knew that Mike and I would immediately Google it (something the doctors ALWAYS advise you NOT to do) - she gave me this website: www.chargesyndrome.org.
September 14, 2009 is the day we found out Finley had CHARGE Syndrome. And while its huge bit of information to digest and process, it also gave us a sense of relief in some ways. All of this "stuff"...it finally had a name. And as we poured over the information on the Foundation's website, this puzzle started to come together. Look at that - there is a picture of Finley's ear on the site! The typical "CHARGE" ear. Heart defect? Check. Swallowing issues? Check. And as we read the other significant symptoms of CHARGE - colobomas (vision loss) and hearing loss....we hoped that Finley would fall in to the teeny tiny perfect of kids who don't have those things.
Fast forward to today and we definitely know a lot more. Do we know everything? No. We know what we know and certainly there will be a lot more we will find out. But in spite of all of that and in spite of the fact that we now know that yes, Finley is also visually and hearing impaired, and all of the challenges she's faced and continues to tackle, its not quite as scary any more. And as we look back on this last year since we became part of the "CHARGE Family" we focus on Finley's accomplishments, achievements and we focus on taking things day by day and soaking in every smile and every moment and making those moments the best they can be.
And if you never have, please take some time to visit the CHARGE Foundation website and learn more about CHARGE Syndrome today!
Finley's Medical History
Important Links
Blogs I Follow
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The Jelly Chronicles Blog11 months ago
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3 comments:
Congrats to mom, dad and big brother Nate for being loving, strong and amazing people...Finley is a lucky girl to be so well taken care of:)
I remember that day we saw you in the elevator like it was yesterday. That week was very hard for us too as leah had her heart surgery and 2 cardiac arrests, BIG HUGS to you tracy!
What a blessing for Finley to have such a loving, devoted family. And yes each and everyone of her accomplishments should be celebrated. She is amazing as are you Tracy!
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